HOW TO SOLVE PROBLEM?

Do not be a problem that afflicts us is considered as a burden let alone a disaster, but regard it as a gift to enhance science, charity, insight and the glory of Allah SWT.
Slander, accident, shortage of property, illness, humiliation, is partly a problem that will always be up to us. Wherever we go and wherever we are, he will always come along. The problem is, how our attitude to the problem?. This is what will determine success or failure of our lives; happy or nestapanya our feelings.
Is not school over the years, we have to face numerous tests until we graduated and respected as an educated person?. The key, if you want to get the best value, we must prepare ourselves by learning and practicing constantly. After that face the exams with the intention and the best way to pass the best value.
Well, when faced with a problem, what attitude should we take?. Here is how to deal with the problems we have to do:
1. Do not panic
When hit by a problem, the first step we must take is to not panic. The panic will only add to the problem rather than solve problems. So train yourself and your family to relax and not panic as bad as any situation.
2. Do not be emotional
Do not be goaded to act angry and emotional when we are faced with a problem. Anger will only satisfy the appetite, whereas uncontrolled lust is not way to achieve truth and glory of life. Instead we must not act, that should not be is to act emotionally.
3. Do not rush
Haste is from Satan. Hasty action will only reap regret. So control yourself, do not hurry to complete an activity without calculation mature. When we are faced with complex problems, quickly map the problem, gather information in BAL (true, accurate, and complete). Once the new information gathered we make decisions and act immediately.
4. Do not dissolve dramatize
Some suffering is the result of dramatization of our own minds. As a result, the issue looks serious, urgent, and tense. And may be after the living, the issue is not as bad as expected and semencekam.
5. Do not despair
The problem will make us degenerated into abject, if we were desperate to deal. Desperate forbidden for a Muslim. Despair born of the weakness of science and faith in Allah.
Remember, there must be trouble with ease. We can not be separated from the problem. Then, glory above principles when trouble hits. Then accept and deal with it by "gracefully". After that live as a "learning process," and biological "wisdom" behind the problem that, until finally we can enjoy it.